Powering Families:
The Essential Role of Grandparents in Care, Connection and Support

Today’s grandparents invest in their grandkids’ future by giving over $2,600 and 500+ hours, on average, each year in support.

Grandparenting is one of the most meaningful relationships in American life, yet it’s often reduced to a narrow set of stereotypes: the universally retired grandparent, always nearby, always available, mostly spoiling the kids. This research shows a more nuanced reality. For some, the role is light and joyful, grounded in play and celebration. For others, it’s steady and sustaining, built through everyday presence or consistent rituals across distance. And for many, it’s quietly demanding, as grandparents step in with time, caregiving, and financial support that keeps American family life working.

What grandparents share is not a singular “right” way of being involved, but a common bond to the children they love. Their relationships are shaped by the realities of modern family life: proximity, communication rhythms, caregiving responsibilities, health and life stage, and the dynamics among parents and grandparents. Come join us and explore the diverse experiences of U.S. grandparents today. Findings draw from an online survey of approximately 3,300 U.S. grandparents, conducted in November–December 2025, as well as 15 in-depth interviews.